ANDREW WARD is a faculty member of the Psychology Department of Swarthmore College. He received his B.A. in Biology from Harvard University and his Ph.D. in Psychology from Stanford University. His research interests include conflict and negotiation and the self-regulation of emotions, behaviors, and thoughts. He has published a number of scholarly journal articles and book chapters, and his work has been featured in such popular magazines as Glamour, Self , Allure, and Redbook.